The man leans back blissfully against the pillows. His eyelids droop, his breathing slows, and a blissful smile plays on his lips… And at that moment, the face of his disgruntled partner looms over his peaceful visage. “Shall we talk?” she asks indignantly.
You'll agree, this is the kind of situation that happens in any bedroom around the world. Modern men often secretly read their wives' “women's” magazines to figure out how to please them. They've already established one rule: a woman needs foreplay and… chatter?!
Most of the women surveyed honestly admitted that talking after sex isn't very important to them. The post-orgasmic bliss is very relaxing and even clears the mind, but only for some.
Here's what the girls themselves think about it:
Anastasia (35): “Personally, after sex, I immediately turn around and fall asleep. If I suddenly feel like talking, it means things aren't so rosy.”
Violeta (25): “What if after great sex I want to smoke and fall asleep? Should I consider myself a man for that?”
Larisa (22): “The revelation of the body is followed by the revelation of the spirit. That's where the desire to converse comes from. In my opinion, gender is secondary here.”
Some girls do chat in bed, although it's not common. In this case, there's only one piece of advice: talk to your cat. He won't mind.