It's commonly believed that sexual desire in men is manifested by erections, and in women by lubrication. However, this isn't entirely true in the latter case. It's time to stop believing the myth that “being wet means you're ready for sex.” Experts explain what actually contributes to arousal.
When it comes to sex, the female body is somewhat more complex than the male. And lubrication is just the tip of the iceberg. Furthermore, a partner's level of wetness alone can't determine whether she's ready for sex.
Often, lubrication occurs, but the woman is not yet physically or psychologically ready for sex. Or, conversely, her genitals may be completely dry, but she is already quite aroused.
The point is that lubrication acts as a kind of automatic reflex in the body to any actions or words that could lead to sex. However, due to internal or external factors, its amount can decrease or increase. Even a complete lack of lubrication is normal.
For full arousal, a woman's genitals must receive sufficient blood flow. And to achieve orgasm, she must be psychologically prepared for sex. So, sexologists once again remind everyone: foreplay is still necessary. What kind and how long is individual. All women experience arousal differently, and there's no exact time or method.
But how can you tell when she's “ready”? Experts recommend paying attention to her breathing and heartbeat, which increase with arousal. Her face may flush. Ultimately, your partner can always tell how aroused she is. So don't be lazy and ask.