Theorem: To catch a good fish, you need to offer it very good bait.
Numerous dating sites are brimming with ads. The savvy post their profiles on several different sites simultaneously. The persistent, sparing no expense, push their profiles to the top within 2-3 days. Beautiful women hope for professional photos. Women expose their most attractive body parts, skillfully strike seductive mermaid poses, and subtly splash in the foam of the waves. Apollo men, gently tensing their muscles, invite their companions to spend unforgettable nights. Alas, in the age of the internet and mobile communications, few find what they're looking for.
What are they looking for? Women are looking for the one and only, their soulmate. Someone who will bring joy and comfort to the family with body and soul, and nurture and bring to fruition their small but ambitious offspring.
Men want, on the recommendation of one of our authoritative writers, to find a beautiful woman according to their status and quickly try her on the nearest horizontal soft spot. And then, as God provides. And He does, but for some reason not in the way they want, and not to the one who tries the hardest.
Why isn’t it working, even though it seems like there are bites and plenty of fish?
1). The forms are blank. Just look at the photo. Here he is (she is me). Solve the riddle. If you guess it right, you'll get a prize! Unfortunately, people are bad at guessing.
2). The profiles are dishonest. Some use photos of famous and unknown artists. Others lie on their pages, trying to attract as many partners as possible, hoping they'll fall in love and stick with it.
3). The profile owners are honest, modest, and shy; they cannot squeeze out information for fear of being recognized by neighbors or colleagues and judged.
4). Profile owners are slow-witted. For example, they write about their preferences, saying they love to travel. Only later do they discover they prefer to do so on board a plane and stay comfortably in an expensive hotel. On the other hand, a partner might imagine traveling as a hiking trail, nights in a mountain forest by a campfire, singing songs, and mosquitoes…
There are dozens of examples of how sexual giants turn out to be dwarfs, businessmen turn out to be car washers, and passionate women turn out to be cold Atlantic herrings.
What to do? Take risks. Take the biggest risks. Be as open as possible. Reveal all your sides. Emphasize those qualities that make you, dear friends, lovable. Don't be afraid of sidelong glances from friends and acquaintances, because YOUR LIFE is in the balance. Perhaps today, right now, the person you've been yearning for will flit in and disappear. They might not notice you if they think your spiritual life is lacking in talent or emptiness. Fill your forms to the brim, like a cup of wine offered to a dear guest. Let your photographs showcase your individuality. Reach out to each other. Show politeness and a desire to look within. That's where true riches lie. Reveal your best spiritual qualities, love and tenderness, courage and reliability to your potential partner. Communicate as openly as possible; there's wisdom in that, too. Remember, there are no trifles here. Sometimes they're very important. Someone might appreciate a small detail like this one: a woman wrote that she has pets, but she also considers the titmice that perch on her windowsill to be her pets. She wrote that she loves them very much. And someone will love this little detail. And so go on writing about happiness…
To captivate a woman (man) for the night, a smile, affection, music, and a glass of wine are enough. To truly connect with a woman (man), you must reveal your inner spiritual world. The charms of spirituality, love, and kindness are very powerful. They draw you in, and there's no way to resist them. Show who you are now. If you still have flaws, show that you want to change yourself, all the bad stuff, and that love will change you for the better.
Good luck on dating sites, dear friends!
