Many modern people are all too familiar with the problem of loneliness. Many men and women suffer from an unsettled personal life, lack of family, and lack of children. Feng shui experts claim that the root cause of this problem lies within one's own home.
It turns out that many single people keep a number of negatively charged objects in their homes, which deprive them of happiness in love and hinder their ability to find their soulmate. Removing these objects from your apartment can improve your love life and alleviate loneliness.
Both feng shui and folk wisdom dictate that the home of an unmarried woman or bachelor should be free of items that attract loneliness to their owner. Specifically:
Unpaired objects.
Unpaired objects deprive their owners of luck in love. They are imbued with negative energy, hindering happiness in their personal lives. If a person does not want to remain single for life, they should immediately either get rid of the unpaired object or buy a second one to create a pair.
For example, you can't keep just one pillow, one chair, or one cup at home. A happy love union won't happen in such a home. To find a partner, a bachelor or spinster should place two chairs at the table and buy a pair of identical cups. There should be two pillows on the bed—one for you and one for your partner. This trick will help your partner appear sooner.
It's very bad to keep a double item (socks, slippers, mittens, earrings, etc.) in your home that has lost its pair. It should be disposed of as soon as possible. Possessing such an item threatens not only a troubled personal life but also everyday problems.
To attract good luck in love, decorate your home with figurines of paired doves, mandarin ducks, and swans. These little items will help you find a partner sooner. According to the ancient Chinese teachings of feng shui, they will bestow mutual love and happiness upon their owner.
Certain items in the home can't be paired (sofa, bed, table). You don't necessarily need to buy a second table to create a more personal space. A table with enough space for two people is enough.
Pictures and posters depicting one person.
Such images bring loneliness upon the apartment's occupant, condemning them to a solitary lifestyle. Feng shui explains this by the predominance of either feminine or masculine energy in the home. A happy family life thrives in a home where there is a balance between yin and yang. By balancing these energies, one can improve their personal life. A still life with peonies will help one forget loneliness.
Paintings depicting a lonely, unhappy, or sick person are especially unfortunate. Such decorative items threaten the home's occupant not only with loneliness but also with health problems, financial difficulties, and other troubles.
If someone wants to forget loneliness forever, they should hang a painting of a loving couple on the wall. Paired images of birds (doves, swans, storks, ducks) and a still life with peonies work well.
Wallpaper, furniture, textiles in “feminine” colors.
Many women remain single because of their desire to decorate their homes in typically feminine tones. They prefer wallpaper, furniture upholstery, and home textiles in soft, feminine colors (pink, lilac, light green, white). This leads to an imbalance between masculine and feminine energies, leading to a predominance of yin. Consequently, men feel uncomfortable in such a “feminine” home and fail to thrive there.
The problem can be solved by enriching the color palette used to decorate your living space with shades that carry yang energy: yellow, orange, red, and brown. This simple trick will help a woman meet her soulmate faster.
Handicrafts in the bedroom.
Loneliness often plagues women who enjoy needlework (knitting, sewing, embroidery). Leaving needles, knitting needles, and scissors in plain sight along with unfinished projects can be problematic. Sharp objects are dangerous to leave in public view. They pose the greatest danger when placed near the bed. Such items not only deprive a woman of happiness in love but also provoke arguments with other residents of the apartment. They can also lead to health problems.
Unfinished sewing has no place in the bedroom of a single woman, nor even a happily married couple. These items will provoke arguments between husband and wife. The bedroom is no place for sharp or pointed objects. Feng shui teaches us this wisdom.
Empty dishes.
Empty dishes, cups, and vases left in plain sight deprive the apartment's occupant not only of happiness in love but also of prosperity in the home. They promise an empty life, loneliness, and poverty.
Not only should you not leave empty dishes, but even cosmetic tubes and bottles should be discarded. Empty glass and plastic containers should be disposed of immediately, to avoid suffering from a poorly organized personal life and a life of poverty.
To ensure prosperity in the home, keep a vase filled to the brim with candy, coins, grain, and rose petals within easy reach. Such an object will help you find both happiness in love and material well-being.
By removing negatively charged objects from your home that attract loneliness, you can change your life for the better and open yourself to love and happiness. At least, that's what the ancient Chinese teaching of feng shui claims.
